Write a letter to the person who has died and express all of the feelings you ever wanted to say, but were afraid to or just never got around to expressing. Seal the letter in an envelope and place it in the casket. Your written thoughts will go with your loved one to his or her final resting place.
 

Bring in the favorite song of the person who has died on compact disc or cassette and we will play it for you during the visitation and/or funeral service.

Request from us that helium balloons be ordered to release after the grave site service. Everyone can be given one and some brief words can be said before releasing them in the air.
 

Bring in photographs spanning the life of the person who has died and we will incorporate them into a memory board to be present at the visitation and funeral service. These can be photos with family, friends at work, fishing or hunting, golfing, knitting, baking, serious and comical. No photo is in bad taste when it depicts the life of the one you are commemorating.
 

If your loved one had a hobby of building things or was involved in the arts, crafts or photography, bring some of their works in to be displayed at the funeral home. We can even take quilt work and drape it over the casket for example.
 

If you have favorite scripture readings, let us know what they are and we will see to it that they are incorporated into the service.
 

If your loved one composed poetry or essays, let us have a copy. We will reproduce several copies so that people might take it with them from the funeral home or perhaps they could be recited as a part of the remembering ritual of the funeral.
 

If the person who died was not a regular church goer, consider having the funeral in a favorite place that perhaps reflected their lifestyle like a favorite park, the marina if he or she was a boater, a basketball court, or center ice. The possibilities are numerous.
 

Eulogize the person who has died during the funeral or visitation. Oftentimes the clergyperson did not know the person who has died and since the funeral is intended to recognize a life that has been lived, it is important to recognize that life in a personal way. Who better can do that than someone who knew the person who died on a personal basis.
 

Place cherished items in the casket like pictures of the grandchildren and other family members, a photo of the family pet, a favorite golf club, a pool stick, a well worn baseball cap, or a religious item. We welcome all of them as your way of saying good bye.